We downloaded all of our text messaging data over the course of our relationship from T-Mobile and Verizon. We provide some insights in the tabs below. Enjoy!
Our first winter together, texting ~600 times a week was the norm. Since Neil moved in, our texting slowed down quite a bit.
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There seems to be a slight downward trend in the length of the texts that we send each other - however, certain events cause outliers.
The week after we got engaged, Neil’s texting character count increased dramatically!
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Neil doesn’t always respond!
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But when Neil responds, he has more to say!
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Over the course of our relationship, we texted some words
more than others. See our word cloud below.
“Baby”, “Babe”, “Love”, and “Lol” are a few of our most frequently used words!
“ETA”, “BTW”, and “FYI” also make the top list.
Karina texts “Baby” a lot, while Neil texts “Babe” more. Neil’s 2nd favorite thing to text is “Laugh Out Loud.”
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We have highlighted certain sections of this graph to tell a few stories. Check out the tabs below to see some interesting trends we found in our texting!
Right after we decided to make it official, “Love you” made its way into our regular texting. We were quick to say we love each other… And we love that!
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At the beginning of their relationship, Neil used “Babe” instead of “Baby”, but overtime he seems to mimic the way Karina used the word. A significant increase in Neil texting the word “Baby” can be seen after we move in together.
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Karina rarely used the word “Babe” to start with!
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Notice how Ben (Karina’s son) becomes a topic of conversation more frequently after he was introduced to Neil.
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Note: One of Neil’s best friends is also named Ben, so some of this data may be inflated.
After we made our relationship official, Neil started to “Laugh Out Loud” much more frequently. Karina “Laughed Out Loud” at a pretty low frequency throughout their relationship.
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From December through February, we were saying “Good morning” to each other nearly everyday. Since the end of February, the number of times we say “Good morning” to each other via text is nearly zero. Although we started “officially” living with each other in August, we have been seeing each other every morning for quite a while. We get to wish each other a good morning in person everyday, now! The only time we text each other “Good morning” or “Good night” now is when one of us are away.
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A collage of us together on some of our favorite trips!